Compete vs Complete. What I Learnt From World Class Cyclists at The Race Across America

Nothing makes an effort sweeter than getting things done successfully. When we do things, do we do it merely for the sake of doing it (completing) or do we do it in order to improve ourselves (compete)?

It is worthy to make a note to ourselves that every effort is an opportunity to learn and get better. Every action we do must be able to reverb back us knowing that we’ve improved. 

The best analogy for this is in sports. Most times the trainings are repetitive, and the drills a chore. Yet after that hour or two of effort, the endorphins kick in and we see the rewards immediately. We feel great!

So what is it that you would like to do? Are you in it just because it’s a job, or are you in it because it makes a difference?

A Simple Post About Gratitude

As I’m sitting here over breakfast relishing some down time, with the second stage of the Purpose launch just around the corner; I am overcome with feelings of gratitude. Gratitude over how far I’ve come and how much farther this journey will be.
Gratitude about life, the things I’ve done, the people met and life-long friends I’ve made. And I can say life-long because it is. At 47, nearing 50, I can say all friends made really indeed have been for life.

Gratitude about my mum, my family. Coming from nothing, leaving with something – the strong bond of love we have for each other. Non-judgemental in each and every of our ways and happy with the way we all are.

Gratitude about Purpose. How far it’s come and all the support it’s getting. Gratitude especially about the friends who’ve become investors. Who firmly believes in this crazy idea. The ones who said “ok, I will invest”. These words are doubly special. These words put meaning to effort. Words that to a new starting entrepreneur like me, not only mean support but also a showing of faith—in the idea as well as in my ability to bring this idea to life.

Gratitude about the people who have shown support. Gratitude for those who have wished me well, and even more for this who actually did buy the products. These little things add up. Every penny counts and when friends buy at full price, rather than ask for a discount or for free, these become a display of their faith in me and this thing called Purpose. I agree no one owes nobody else anything, especially not me. If the idea and the products are good it will sell. Thus even more so when friends buy them, that gratitude becomes more special.

Gratitude lastly, especially in the past several weeks, to friends who have gone out of their way to help to make these Purpose events a success. Friends who just stepped up to volunteer time and effort to help make Purpose become something greater than I alone is capable of. Friends that sees the same vision and firmly believes that Purpose will happen. These are friends who’ve become volunteers who’ve become believers who’ve become co-creators.

Gratitude for everyone, and everything that has contributed towards this point. Thank you.

P.S. In writing this, I had not put names down. Firstly because the list truly is never ending and I do not want to forget any. And second more importantly, it’s just for everyone’s privacy reason in this day and age of social media.


Dark Patterns: How User Interfaces Trick Us Into Decisions We Didn’t Really Make

What are dark patterns and how much of it is present into our daily digital activities? How much do the decisions we make are based on our own choices and how much are influenced by what we see? Did we really buy into that item or were we somehow coerced into it?

Watch this video and learn how online experiences and user interface designs are intentionally designed to make use of our natural cognitive biases to influence us into making decisions we wouldn’t have naturally made.

Some cases are good; others however, a little tricky. Nonetheless, it’s hard to deny that patterns are a powerful influence in our everyday task.


Art of the Discussion: Everybody Believes They’re The Good Guy – YouTube

Watch this video for some truly wonderful insight about listening and understanding different point of views. As humans, our opinions are shaped by experiences and surroundings. We come in, usually very strongly with our own way of thinking. Sometimes forgetting that others have their own, usually different beliefs.

Viewpoints can fall into the trap of oversimplification. The only real way to get them to see your views is to listen to theirs. When you do, you will find that their values are often very similar to yours.